Saturday, December 30, 2023

Know My Name: A Memoir by Chanel Miller, written in 2019

 


While Chanel tells the details of her experiences after learning she had been assaulted outside of a fraternity party at Stanford, we learn about the strength of a survivor who is trying to find her "normal" while awaiting trial. While this book is both heart-wrenching and courageous, Miller articulates the complexity of being an assault survivor with wit and charm. Both a writer and artist, Chanel pulls in the reader with her descriptions and details. She brings us with her as she recalls heartbreaking moments along her journey as "Emily Doe," and what life was like for her as she decided to share her identity with the country.

Her strength is awe-inspiring, and the way she articulates her perspectives is almost philosophical. While her assailant was only sentenced to 6 months in county jail (and only actually served 3), Miller struggles with shame and isolation. Throughout the book, readers are forced to reckon with our ideas of privilege, sexual predators, and the criminal justice system. Chanel is a leading writer of our time who will not only change the way you see our world, but also the way you may see yourself.

Submitted by Karen Archibee, Zonta Club of Oswego