Dancing in the Mosque: An Afghan Mother's Letter to Her Son Book, by Homeira Qaderi

Publisher Harper Collins, December 1, 2020  

A book review, by Irene Orton

An exquisite and inspiring memoir about one mother’s unimaginable choice in the face of oppression and abuse in Taliban-controlled Afghanistan.

Time to share with everyone this great book that I just finished.  The title is:  Dancing in the Mosque by Homeira Qaden.  With all that is happening in Afghanistan I felt compelled to pick up this book in my local library.  I was not disappointed.

 

This 212 page book was compelling, as a courageous mother in Afghanistan she writes this memoir about the love she has for this child in a country that shuts women away from everything that we hold true and dear here in the United States.  I learned so much about society and the treatment of women in this country.  Homeira was no ordinary women, and she was constantly fighting for the rights of women in a very theocratic and patriarchal society.  At 13, she risked her freedom, and she defied the law to teach reading and writing to children.

 

This memoir is a letter to her son whom she was forced to leave behind.  This books serves as a wonderful invitation to reflect on the meaning of motherhood, sacrifice, and survival.  How far would we go to protect ourselves, our families and our dignity?

 

I could not put this book down!!!

THE GIRLS IN THE WILD FIG TREE HOW I FOUGHT TO SAVE MYSELF, MY SISTER, AND THOUSANDS OF GIRLS WORLDWIDE, by Nice Nailantei Leng'ete

(Written BY NICE LENG'ETE WITH ELIZABETH BUTLER-WITTER)  

 RELEASE DATE: SEPT. 14, 2021

Review by - https://www.kirkusreviews.com

An inspirational memoir from a human rights activist who has devoted her life to fighting female genital mutilation.

The author is a member of the Maasai tribe, born in the small Kenyan town of Kimana, and she evocatively explores the culture of her people. Historically, Maasai men are known as fierce warriors who protect their people and animals, while Maasai women serve as the caregivers of the house and children. A community bound by tradition, they live in hand-built circular homes and raise cattle as the primary food source. 

When they are young, children have one of their cheeks branded by a hot coil of wire; the scab creates a circle that serves as “a special symbol to mark us as Maasai.” When it was Leng’ete’s turn, she ran away, and she “still [has] no marks.” Another tradition is referred to as “the cut.” During this ceremony, the women subject the young females to a procedure in which their clitoris is either cut or removed completely—without anesthesia. 

Leng’ete refused to undergo FGM. “I loved my family. I loved my people. But this, I thought, was wrong,” she explains. “Tradition can be good. Tradition can be beautiful. But some traditions deserve to die.” Following her defiant act, she was shunned. With urgent, shocking, and heartbreaking detail, Leng’ete brings readers into her life. Beginning her work with the African Medical and Research Foundation when she was still a teenager, she found her calling. Armed with scientific evidence about the significant health risks associated with FGM, Leng’ete returned to her community in hopes of instilling change. Due in part to her relentless efforts, tribal leaders “changed the Maasai constitution to reflect our commitment to end FGM.” Leng’ete was also awarded the black walking stick, a symbol of leadership not normally given to women. She went on to campaign globally, including building A Nice Place in Kimana, “a safe haven for girls fleeing FGM."

An incredibly powerful story that offers real hope for the future.

Minor Feelings: an Asian American Reckoning

by Cathy Park Hong, 2020, 206 pages, paperback.

The poetry editor of the New Republic discusses her experiences living and working in a culture hostile to expressions of Asian individuality and identity. In this memoir in essays, Hong offers a fierce and timely meditation on race and gender issues from her perspective as a Korean American woman. Candid and unapologetically political, Hong's text deftly explores the explosive emotions surrounding race in ways sure to impact the discourse surrounding Asian identity as well as race and belonging in America.
 

You Don't Belong Here: How Three Women Rewrote the Story of War

 by Elizabeth Becker, 2021, 289 pages. Hardback.

 

An incisive history of the Vietnam War via the groundbreaking accomplishments of three remarkable women journalists. In this work, Elizabeth Becker, focuses on the careers of Frances FitzGerald, Kate Webb, and Catherine Leroy, interweaving their stories as they traveled to Vietnam in the mid-1960s. As U.S. involvement was escalating and news organizations continued to send men to chronicle the war, these women paid their own ways and sought out freelance reporting opportunities. "Leroy, FitzGerald, and Webb were the three pioneers who changed how the story of war was told," writes Becker. "They were excluded by nature from the confines of male journalism, with all its presumptions and easy jingoism. They saw the war differently and wrote about it in wholly new ways.”

The Only Woman in the Room, by Marie Benedict

A review by Airin Dutta, a doctoral student at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, who received the Zonta International Foundation Amelia Earhart Fellowship in 2020. 

“The Only Woman in the Room” by Marie Benedict was a glimpse into the gripping life of Hedy Lamarr, otherwise known to the world only as a Hollywood star, with her technological contributions merely treated as intriguing footnotes. Her captivating beauty was a curse, as she observed, “My face has been my misfortune, a mask I cannot remove.” 

Her life is truly stranger than fiction -- she survived the persecution of Jews through marriage to a powerful arms dealer, escaped the abusive marriage and Austria in the face of invasion by Hitler, only to land in Hollywood, fending off advances from predatory producers and having a successful yet unsatisfactory movie career of portraying vacuous femme fatale. Undeterred by her struggle, she became a role model for modern women as a single mother, that too through child adoption, in the prime of her career. 

Trying to assist in the Allied war effort coupled with survivor’s guilt, as well as being privy to military secrets discussed during armament deals with the Nazis and the knowledge she acquired from scientific journals available to her back in Austria, finally came to fruition in 1941. She with her friend, a composer and pianist George Antheil, developed a device for synchronizing the guidance signal for radio-controlled torpedoes between the transmitter and receiver, because this signal would be distributed over several frequencies to protect from enemy jamming. However, in a blatant act of sexism, the US Navy was not receptive of a technology invented by a “beautiful” woman, even though they were struggling with the torpedo system. Additionally, the National Council rejected the implementation, citing its bulkiness for integration with submarine systems, although it was roughly the size of a watch. To add insult to injury, she was told to do her job which was to captivate crowds with her charm and raised funds for the war. It was only in the 1960’s, that the invention eventually led to the creation of Bluetooth and WiFi technology in the modern-day cell phones. She, with her partner, received their long overdue credit when inducted into the National Inventors Hall of Fame in 2014.

All enlightened women and I are grateful to her for fighting to make a better world for us. Hedy Lamarr, your truly beautiful soul shall inspire us to carry on the struggle to uplift many more unfortunate beings. I am thankful to the author to bring to light her achievements, buried deep beneath the failures of humanity. Though, this book has a watered-down version of her scientific efforts, it was enough to pique the curiosity of interested readers. Finally, my takeaway was the “Da-vinci”-esque ultimate unification of art and science. From a scientific mindset, I was amazed by their idea of frequency hopping inspired from changing scales while playing a musical piece. 

Finally, here I am with her star on the “Hollywood walk of Fame”! 

 

Muslim Women Are Everything: Stereotype-Shattering Stories of Courage, Inspiration, and Adventure

 

Muslim Women Are Everything: Stereotype-Shattering Stories of Courage ...

Seema Yasmin, Fahmida Azim - Art - 2020 - 192 pages

Winner of the 2020 Best Book Awards in Women’s Issues

A full-color illustrated collection of riveting, inspiring, and stereotype-shattering stories that reveal the beauty, diversity, and strength of Muslim women both past and present. Tired of seeing Muslim women portrayed as weak, sheltered, and limited, journalist Seema Yasmin reframes how the world sees them, to reveal everything they CAN do and the incredible, stereotype-shattering ways they are doing it. Featuring 40 full-color illustrations by illustrator Fahmida Azim throughout, Muslim Women Are Everything is a celebration of the ways in which past and present Muslim women from around the world are singing, dancing, reading, writing, laughing, experimenting, driving, and rocking their way into the history books. Forget subservient, oppressed damsels—say hello to women who are breaking down barriers using their art, their voices, and their activism, including: Tesnim Sayar from Denmark, a Muslim goth-punk who wears a red tartan mohawk on top of her hijab American superstar singer SZA Nura Afia, CoverGirl’s first hijabi ambassador Ilhan Omar and Rashida Tlaib, America’s first Muslim congresswomen Ilyana Insyirah, a hijaab-wearing scuba-diving midwife from Australia Showcasing women who defy categorization, Muslim Women Are Everything proves that to be Muslim and a woman is to be many things: strong, vulnerable, trans, disabled, funny, entrepreneurial, burqa or bikini clad, and so much more.

Business Networking Essentials: How to Network like a Pro for Fun and Profit, by Helen Vella

Empowered women, empower women!  Ever wonder how to best represent Zonta, or how to effectively tell potential members about Zonta?  Don't know many people to talk to about Zonta?   This short book can empower you!   Step by step, you will easily learn the networking fundamentals from the well-defined tools presented within the pages of this success book. Keep it in your Kindle to read again and again, until the techniques become a natural part of how you communicate.  Become more comfortable speaking and see your connections and relationships rise. This book will give you insider tips on how to network like a professional such as, how to craft your elevator pitch, how to communicate who you are & what you do, how to help people you meet, and how to identify what kind of referrals you're looking for, in a clear, authentic manner (in sixty seconds or less!) The author, Helen Villa, finds that empowering, inspiring and encouraging people to be balanced and to live their best life is very rewarding. Find out more about the author and coach at her website, https://hvella.com.